People grieve, and survive from that.
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At the beginning
According to Elizabeth Kubler-Ross, when we are dying or have suffered a catastrophic loss, we all move through five distinct stages of grief. We go into denial, because the loss is so unthinkable. We can't imagine it's true. We become angry with everyone -- angry with survivors, angry with ourselves. Then we bargain. We beg. We plead. We offer everything we have.We offer up our souls, in exchange, for just one more day. When the bargaining has failed and the anger is too hard to maintain, we fall into depression, despair, until finally we have to accept that we have done everything we can. We let go. We let go and move into acceptance.

In the end
Grief may be a thing that we all have in common,but looks different on everyone. ... It is not just death that we have to grieve. It's life. lt's lost. It's change. And when we wonder why it has to suck so much, has to hurt so bad. The thing that we gotta remember is that it can turn on a dime. ... That's how you stay live. When it hurts so much that you can't breath, that's how you survive. ... By remembering that one day, somehow, impossibly, it won't feel this way. It won't hurt you this much. ... Grief comes its own time for everyone, in its own way. So the best we can do, the best anyone can do, is try for honesty. ... The really crappy thing, the very worst part of grief, is that you can't control it. The best we can do is try to let ourselves feel it, when it comes. ... And let it go when we can. ... And the worst part is that the minute you think you are past it, it starts all over again. And always everytime, ... it takes your breath away.

There are five stages of grieve, they look different on all of us, but there are always five. Denial, ... anger, ... bargaining, ... depression, ... acceptance.
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PS: Thanks YTET(or YDY) for sharing the subtitles.

     这两天的雨确实大了点儿，不过学校里面没有问题，一切正常。大家不用担心。

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